haix.. it's my turn to grab this from xiaolaopo.. damn lorz! two slp-less nite! i bet he is slping really well. GUYS JUST DUN GET IT! self-healing isn't an inner-super power we girls are born with!

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HOW TO COAX UR GF.

1. NEVER LEAVE HER ALONE TO COOL DOWN, even if she tells you to go away or does not want to say anything. 95% of girls hate that. They like to pout and sulk and ignore you while you keep trying to cajole. Keep doing that. It may take 5min for one girl... or 10hrs for another.... before she cools down.

2. BE SINCERE. If you are trying to apologize, then be sincere about being sorry. Girls can't stand guys who say sorry but then when they find out more try to push the blame back to the girl, or take the girl's reasons lightly.

3. After you have done 1, she would have decided to stop her cold war with you, and she would open her heart again and tell you EVERYTHING she feels, and why. LISTEN ATTENTIVELY. DO NOT INTERRUPT except to clarify. When she is done, and appears to feel better that she's given you a piece of her mind, THEN you may try to explain your side of the story patiently and contritely.

4. Never make her feel that her anger is unjustified EVEN IF YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE DONE NO WRONG. Show her that you understand how she feels and that you promise you will try to be more sensitive and not be so stupid in the future.If you have done 1-4 well, she would have forgiven you by now. However, her mood may still be bad because of the whole episode. NOW you can start cracking silly jokes to cheer her up or do anything silly/funny/romantic/sweet/touching. To do the cheering up BEFORE step 1-4 is just suicide ok. She will be even more angry to find that you have the mood to clown around when she's so upset about something else.
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the one up there ar... pls guide me to such a perfect guy.

actually i shd consider myself being blessed that i hv so many frenz ard... esp ms Yong n Ver... ystd was kinda horrible to passby... time was passing TOO slow. felt so horrible at home. called Xin n Ver up to ask them accompany me.. despite being late at nite... they onx onx.. the clouds brighten instantly.. muz b my innate personality not to share my woes wif other ppl...

ate at Jln Kayu prata wif xin while waiting for Ver...



me n xin....


can u help but not fall in love wif them????? decade old frenship proves itself much stronger than love!!!


it was supposed to be my whining session.. bt xin decided to make it hers... advertising a bit for her: GUYS! ARE U ALL BLIND! SUCH A NICE GAL N ALL SHE GET TO MEET IS A JERK! SOMEONE NICE OUT THERE BETA MARRY HER IN 3 AND A HALF YEARS!!!!!


rite.. it's TIME for the male species to acquire a brain in this dept!!!!!
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19/08/07- singing session with by n yk.... (toopid xiaolaopo flew her kite high high! a big boo for her!!!)

they dedicated quite some break up songs for me.. i got a bit high singing andy lau's "nan ren ku ba bu shi zhui...." Vic Zhou's fav song! LOL~~~~

two of them...


groupie!


Video clips of the nite~~~~~ enjoy~~~


by muz be high on drugs tonite. really hyper...