A long lost fren emailed me just nw asking for advice, Emo-ing quite a bit fr past so decided to come here wind down a bit....

A has recently joined a company and know B. B and C had been dating for 3 years, bt A can't control the desire to know B better, and in fact, to date B. A profess love for B and B rejected A. while A was depress over the recent rejection tt nite, B contacted A and say dun bear A to be so miserable bt B expressed confusion over wat to do. so A n B are gg out on random, watch movies blah blah.. C kn of A's existence bt just assume tt A n B are frenz, showing perfect confidence n trust in B.

ta-da.... my fren, A was whining abt this love life to me.... and ask if i tink A is lousy....

honestly.. i dun tink so.

seriously... i can't help bt pity C! i was stuck in tt miserable situation years ago.. tt hell of a jerk happily two-timed me, even introduced me tt gal as a newbie at work... tink they were frenz, showing trust n confidence, only to find out after his best fren tot i shd kn the truth instead of being stuck in this whirlpool of wrong trust.

till today, i can sompah i've nv blamed the girl for a second. and my fren, being in tt situation, i can say, my fren should not be blamed.

Just like my situation... any gal could hv been in the third party's shoe. If it's not tt gal, since ur loyalty isn't wif me, den it could hv been any other random jane sally nancy. shouldn't it be the onus of the one with commitment with me (aka. my ex) to curb himself from straying? Where there's love, there's competition. Temptations are everywhere. Just bcoz someone put a poison apple out there doesn't mean tt u hv to tk a bite.

But yes, i god damn fuckingly hated my ex. I wish him dead.. the slower n painer the process, the sweeter. May he be b plagued wif slow incurable diseases. *smile* Nope, i dun loved him as much as i hate him, bt i tink i had wasted my ability to trust on someone who shd eat shit n die.

coming back.... my fren is at a loss of wat to do........ i oso dunno wat advice to gif..... coz as much as i wanted to say: since they r not married.. anything is possible.. i kn i would hv bite my tongue n die if jiawen ever do this to me... no wait, why shd i die... i will bite his tongue n let him die. Seriously... i pity C n my fren....... ppl who hurt the ppl whom they declare their love... are the most unlovable jerks who shdn't be blessed wif love.

nite